Separation: Anxiety or Just Variety?
I just finished a week of separation from my three children. One went to her first overnight camp, and the other two spent the week with their grandparents. There were mixed emotions during this time, for sure. I mean, I…
Mama Maverick
It started out like any other Saturday morningā¦ Iām lying. It was nothing like any other Saturday morning. I woke up with a migraine. The whole back half of my head throbbed and felt like it weighed 67 pounds. While…
Not According to Plan
It was the first time in my then-nine years of motherhood that all of my children were to have ongoing scheduled activities, of which I was not to be a part. Honestly, this was pretty exciting to me. Now that…
Half as Hard, Twice as Good
Iāve had three babies and only once went to the hospital with a āfalse alarm.ā Just a couple of weeks before my due date with my son Caleb, I thought I was in labor. So off to the hospital we…
A Decade and a Decision
My firstborn just turned 10. āI canāt believe itā is my normal reaction to her birthday. As all parents told me it would, the time has truly flown by. Wasnāt it ājust yesterdayā that I was rocking her, spoon-feeding her…
Nose-to-Nose, Heart-to-Heart
Recently I had to have a difficult ānose-to-noseā conversation with my daughter. She was having a lot of trouble admitting that she was wrong about something, and Kevin and I had been noticing that this issue with her had been…
My Little Pony
When my daughter Callie was two years old, our friend Kari gave her a toy for Christmas. āOh, Callie! Itās My Little Pony!ā I exclaimed as she opened the package. Very confused, little Callie looked up at me and said,…
A Tribute to Tradition
It’s hard to tell when traditions actually begin or why they begin. I just know my family has them, especially around Christmastime. First of all, we insist on having a live tree. I’d like to say we go to a…
Not-So-Traditional Thanksgivings
When I was growing up, every year we had the same Thanksgiving tradition at my grandparentsā house. It was always my family, my aunt, my uncle, my cousins, my grandparents, turkey, dressing (the best Iāve ever had!), twice-baked potatoes, homemade…
On Parenting Yourself
Hereās what Iāve discovered: My firstborn daughter is the most like me. Hereās what else Iāve discovered: She is quite often the most difficult child for me to parent. And I think I know why. So many of the things…
