The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
I was born at 5:05 pm on March 5, 1975, which was my Granddaddyโs 50th birthday. I love the month of Marchโฆand the number 5! I also love that I was named after my Granddaddyโs mother, Carrie Elizabeth. In turn,…
On Parenting Yourself
Hereโs what Iโve discovered: My firstborn daughter is the most like me. Hereโs what else Iโve discovered: She is quite often the most difficult child for me to parent. And I think I know why. So many of the things…
If You Can’t Say Anything Nice…Try Anyway
Several years ago, a wonderful documentary, Babies, was released. The film chronicles the first year of the lives of four babies from various parts of the world: Namibia, Mongolia, Japan, and the United States. As I watched the film, which has…
On Handling Conflict
My husband and I donโt have a lot of disagreements. And when we do disagree, weโre not loud about it. There was a particular time several years ago when we were having an argument in the kitchen, and our children…
Different Is Good
“You aren’t going to change him,” Dorothy said with an I-know-you-wish-you-could tone in her voice. My then future mother-in-law and I were standing in the doorway of my fiance’s bedroom and were amazed–and a little scared–by what we saw. There were clothes…
