• Family

    On Parenting Yourself

    Hereโ€™s what Iโ€™ve discovered: My firstborn daughter is the most like me. Hereโ€™s what else Iโ€™ve discovered: She is quite often the most difficult child for me to parent. And I think I know why. So many of the things…

  • Marriage

    Different Is Good

    “You aren’t going to change him,” Dorothy said with an I-know-you-wish-you-could tone in her voice. My then future mother-in-law and I were standing in the doorway of my fiance’s bedroom and were amazed–and a little scared–by what we saw. There were clothes…